Cynical about Litigation

http://www.ibtimes.com/sea-shepherd-releases-footage-japanese-ships-whale-sanctuary-claim-wrongdoing-1527926

Even though the spirit of the law is being violated, the letter of the law is not. That's how the Japanese are getting away with this shit in the international groups that are supposed to be enforcing these laws.


It pissed me off because that is the same shit I went through with my bro. I've gotten really pessimistic about law and law enforcement. All that's happened makes me feel like it's a joke.

How does someone break into a house and repeatedly steal furniture, which is felony burglary, and it not be a crime? Well he's a beneficiary and no ownership has been assigned through the will so he has a right to take what he wants.

I knew that shit was coming after the check fraud fiasco where they refused to pursue it and take it to court.
That's why I flipped and started emptying the house and got it on the market in under 2 weeks.  I was actually packing the china up when I got the call from the investigating officer telling me that the DA had decided not to pursue burglary charges because of the above explanation.

So when someone dies or goes into the hospital the family members can pretty much destroy anything or take anything, including squatting in the house, and no crime has been committed. No wonder this shit often ends up in fist fights and shoot outs. If the law won't act to keep things civil, and wills and executors have no actual power to protect the estate, then people have no recourse but to get aggressive about what they want. In the absence of legal bodies, there is only vigilantism.

On that note, I called both lawyers today. The property guardianship papers for Bri are being drawn up. I'll get a call tomorrow or Wednesday to fill in any other information she paralegal may need. This is very cut and dry filing and getting signatures so I don't need a full lawyer to litigate in court.

I chatted with Attorney Adams wife about the papers I got today. I got official papers filing a claim against the estate for the 60K that my bro claims we owe him. Adams is not denying it. He apparently told the other attorney that the 60K was deposited, we have the deposit showing on her bank statement from 2011.  We also have the paperwork showing that it was paid out and then some. He's going to deny it or some other legal term for it.

My bro paid this law office 55K to keep them on retainer for the year to deal with the estate and I would bet to also deal with his arrests for DWI that he still needs to have resolved. it's been a full year since the second arrest and he's still not paid the piper.

It really pisses me off when crimes like this happen and nothing is done to make those people pay. It makes me feel unsafe in my own town and home. And I get angry and want to get violent. What else am I supposed to do? If the police won't protect people, what's left?

So I still have a lot of anger to resolve. I will look into rituals for dealing with letting go of anger about someone and something you cannot change. I need to do this so I can let go. If I keep getting pissed and ranting out this to myself when alone, to my hubby or anyone else, then I obviously have not processed the anger and have not let it go.

We're so close to being done. I need to know that I won't miss having something to bitch about when all the drama ends. My hubbie likes to joke. I say Bri doesn't seem to be happy unless she's fighting against something. He laughs and says, who does that remind you of?

I also need to get that ritual for letting go of past jobs. I wrote it into my BOS a year or so ago. I never got around to doing it. I really need to do it now and for multiple jobs. I still rant about Elmira and Jamestown even now and get pissed. Not as much as I used to but I need ritual release to trigger the subconscious letting go. That's the deep resolution I so need.